Brainwashing. NARCISSIST STYLE.
Brainwashing is how the alienating parent teaches the child the program of hate. It’s the application of the program. Brainwashing “is a process that occurs over a period of time and usually involves the repetition of the programme (content, themes, beliefs) until the subject responds with (attitudinal, behavioral) and compliance.
PROGRAM HAS FINALIZED...
What about the alienating parent, who uses a combination of fear, lies, flattery and gratification of material desires to win over their child, and whose sense of entitlement and desire to control the child is greater than the desire to nurture and care for the child? The parents who try to alienate their child from the other parent subtlely or overtly convey a three-part message to the child:
- I am the only parent who loves you and you need me to feel good about yourself
- The other parent is dangerous and unavailable
- Pursuing a relationship with the other parent jeopardizes your relationship with me.
Alienating parents are themselves emotionally fragile, often enmeshed with the child, with needing control, knowing only how to take.
Brainwashing is how the alienating parent teaches the child the program of hate. It’s the application of the program. Brainwashing “is a process that occurs over a period of time and usually involves the repetition of the programme (content, themes, beliefs) until the subject responds with (attitudinal, behavioral) and compliance.
PROGRAM HAS FINALIZED...
What about the alienating parent, who uses a combination of fear, lies, flattery and gratification of material desires to win over their child, and whose sense of entitlement and desire to control the child is greater than the desire to nurture and care for the child? The parents who try to alienate their child from the other parent subtlely or overtly convey a three-part message to the child:
- I am the only parent who loves you and you need me to feel good about yourself
- The other parent is dangerous and unavailable
- Pursuing a relationship with the other parent jeopardizes your relationship with me.
Alienating parents are themselves emotionally fragile, often enmeshed with the child, with needing control, knowing only how to take.
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