Sunday, March 23, 2014
Power of the Subconscious Mind
10 Rules Of The Subconscious Mind
Our subconscious mind exerts a powerful influence over our lives. It preserves and runs the body. It stores and organizes memories, emotions, and energy. It controls and maintains all of our perceptions.
Over 95% of what we do, think, and say comes from old programming in our subconscious mind.
Unless you make a conscious effort to direct the immense power of your subconscious, its robotic and limited programs will run your life. It will sabotage your best intentions. And yet, it's not difficult to work with the subconscious. You just have to know what you're doing.
Here are ten facts you should know about the subconscious mind:
1. Despite its power, the subconscious is a servant of the conscious mind. It follows orders by acting on whatever is fed to it. It cannot distinguish between what is real and what is imagined. It has no sense of humor and takes everything very literally. Your conscious mind is the gate-keeper. For personal power, you must be aware of what you are allowing into the subconscious. And you can intentionally program it to manifest what you want in life.
2. *****The subconscious mind responds with instinct and habit. As thinking and behavioral patterns deepen, they become habits and >>>>they become harder and harder to change.<<<<<
3. Use repetition, authority, and emotion to program the subconscious. Affirm and visualize often what you desire. Be strong, willful and in command. Draw on your passion and emotional power to affirm what you want, as emotions have a very strong impact on the subconscious mind.
4. The subconscious mind does not process negatives. For this reason, all affirmations and statements must be positive. Do not say, "I will not gain weight." The 'not' is not recorded. The subconscious mind only hears, "I will gain weight."
5. The subconscious represses memories with unresolved negative emotions. The memories will get buried, yet the beliefs and feelings associated with them will still control your reactions. This is why it is important to become aware of and resolve strong guilt, resentment, fears, anger, and depression.
6. The subconscious mind works with symbols and metaphors. Watch your dreams closely for symbols that will offer clues to underlying issues that need to be resolved.
7. It takes everything personally. It keeps a photocopy of everything. Whenever you criticize, resent, judge, and project negative thoughts and feelings onto others, you experience the negativity as your own.
8. The subconscious works on the principle of least effort. It follows the path of least resistance. Without purposeful direction from our conscious mind, it follows the easiest, usually more negative path of our engrained habits.
9. It has a need to be moral. The subconscious mind is also the source of a higher aspect of yourself. This God force, Soul energy, or whatever you want to call it supports your evolution towards love, unity, beauty and truth. Consciously working with the subconscious opens us to higher levels of wisdom and love.
10. It knows only the present time. There is no future or past in the subconscious mind. All stored experiences are processed as NOW. Know that the past affects you NOW, as the subconscious replays past programming in the present. So affirm in the now, not in the future.
------>>>>And understand that you have the power right now to re-write sabotaging programs from the past so you can claim a better future.<-------
When you choose to understand the workings of your own mind and choose to exercise control over the functions and attributes of your own mind, you will be empowered to create your own reality, to be completely self-reliant and totally prosperous. You can have the life you really desire. #truth
Monday, February 17, 2014
So Many Messages...
I read through a free paper called aznetnews, holistic alternative medicine and healing.
There were articles that I resonated with on every page, or that I could share with people who may benefit from it.
Just a few topics such as Heart Based living, Belief in Self Fosters Creativity, Overcoming Health runaround...medical and natural, and more...
Some key tips on how easy it can be to stau positive in the most challenging of situations
WHAT CAN NEGATIVELY AFFECT YOU HEALTH? Negativity! If you currently are experiencing symptoms of disease, some small things that require.no meds can make you feel better...
Friday, February 14, 2014
Thursday, February 13, 2014
My Humanitarian Gift to our Future Children of the World
Today confirms the goals amd mission to STOP THE ABUSE BEFORE IT IS PASSED ON. I commit to all future children under ten, including the unborn, to help as many as I can, keep the peace and happiness they were born with, pure beings of light and grace and power beyond their knowing.
FUTURE SPIRITUAL GUIDANCE COUNSELOR AND HEALER FOR THE CHILDREN OF THE FUTURE...
THE PROBLEM TODAY:
Verbal abuse against children comes from many directions. Children can be verbally abused by parents, teachers, other adults or other children through bullying, individually or in groups. Whoever the source, it is a misconception to assume that the child is able to ignore abuse and go about his business unaffected. The most destructive aspect of verbal abuse for children is that it can continue without being detected while the child suffers. Emotional and psychological abuse scars can
last a lifetime.....
Power Imbalance & Loss of Trust
An actual or imagined power imbalance is the most common aspect of verbal abuse. Children are dependent on most adults with whom they come into contact. They are naturally dependent on their parents, teachers and other adults to supply their needs. Children are vulnerable as the less powerful individual in relationships with adults. When a child is abused by an adult, she learns not to trust those who are supposed to provide her needs and protect her. When abuse continues,
...mistrust is generalized to others. The child may come to expect abuse and develop passive behavior patterns.
Power Imbalance & Loss of Trust
An actual or imagined power imbalance is the most common aspect of verbal abuse. Children are dependent on most adults with whom they come into contact. They are naturally dependent on their parents, teachers and other adults to supply their needs. Children are vulnerable as the less powerful individual in relationships with adults. When a child is abused by an adult, she learns not to trust those who are supposed to provide her needs and protect her. When abuse continues,
... mistrust is generalized to others. The child may come to expect abuse and develop passive behavior patterns.
Aggressive Tendencies
Some verbally abused children develop aggressive tendencies, emulating the behavior of their abusers and becoming bullies themselves.
Such children may engage in delinquent behavior, antisocial activities, and become perpetrators of domestic violence.
*******They may turn their anger inward, becoming self destructive.and engage in substance abuse. It is well known among substance abuse treatment professionals that most female substance abusers were verbally, sexually or otherwise abused as children; and that many male substance abusers were also verbally abused as children. It is also well observed by substance abuse treatment professionals...*************
Delayed Development
The Parents Zone, an Internet community education publication, reports delayed development as the most prominent effect of verbal abuse on children. The publication states that verbally abused children develop slowly in all areas, including physically, socially, emotionally and academically. Verbally abused children continue to experience problems in interpersonal relationships and tend to fall behind in career development as they become young adults. Many eventually develop mental disorders and become depressed or anxious.
Prevention/Solution
Verbal abuse is more difficult to detect than physical abuse, but has long-term effects that are every bit as destructive.
****Mandatory reporting laws are in affect for teachers, counselors and others who might detect problems in mistreated children, but all too often suspicion of verbal abuse is not taken seriously. ,************Teachers and other professionals should be encouraged to teach parents and children about the destructiveness of verbal abuse and encourage assertive behaviors in children that stop it from happening. Anti-bullying programs are in effect in many grade schools.
Malingnant Narcissistic Behavior-ALLOWED BUT CUT OFF!!
The pain I allowed myself to feel...horrible. But, it is important to recognize what it was so as on your path boundaries set and you can choose to block it from even entering your energy space...
More on the type of person I blamed...
To play the game, I had to believe that he was at least a bit superior to me. His ability to “control his emotions” made him feel more secure in the relationship. My demonstrations of a lack of emotional control fed his ego, drove the beast back inside of him, and ultimately kept me safer than acting like a sane person would have.
"The batterer is controlling; he insists on having the last word in arguments and decision-making,
he may control how the family's money is spent, and he may make rules for the victim about her movements and personal contacts,
such as forbidding her to use the telephone or to see certain friends. Or, make you feel guilty or pout because you dont want to be with him???
He is manipulative; he misleads people inside and outside of the family about his abusiveness, GREAT SALESMAN...
he twists arguments around to make other people feel at fault,
and he turns into a sweet, sensitive person for extended periods of time when he feels that it is in his best interest to do so.
His public image usually contrasts sharply with the private reality. He is entitled; he considers himself to have special rights and privileges not applicable to other family members.
He believes that his needs should be at the center of the family's agenda, and that everyone should focus on keeping him happy.
He usually believes that housework and childcare should be done for him, and that any contributions he makes to those efforts should earn him special appreciation and deference.
He is highly demanding.He is disrespectful; he considers his partner less competent, sensitive, and intelligent than he is, often treating her as though she were an inanimate object.
He communicates his sense of superiority around the house in various ways.
The unifying principle is his attitude of ownership. The batterer believes that once you are in a committed relationship with him, you belong to him.
This possessiveness in batterers is the reason why women are mentally broken down so much, and finally attempt to leave the relationship; a batterer does not believe that his partner has the right to end a relationship until he is ready to end it. So, he will stop at nothing to.make it EXTREMELY hard to do.
Because of the distorted perceptions that the abuser has of rights and responsibilities in relationships, he considers himself to be the victim. Acts of self-defense on the part of the battered woman or the children, or efforts they make to stand up for their rights, he defines as aggression against him.
He is often highly skilled at twisting his descriptions of events to create the convincing impression that he has been victimized.
He thus accumulates grievances over the course of the relationship to the same extent that the victim does, which can lead professionals to decide that the members of the couple "abuse each other" and that the relationship has been 'mutually hurtful."It seems that CONTROL is the goal. And so it is.
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
WAS... A Victim, Now... A Survivor
A victim of allowing myself zero boundaries most.of the time, which allowed it all to be "o.k."
Life's too short to carry all that anger into a beautifully present day.
Always have to remember...compassion and forgiveness needs to be something you are at peace with as soon as possible.
Healing relies highly on your ability to forgive, and dump all hurt and hate out the.door.
Everyone has their personal battles.
Using them against them to make them feel weak is not human compassion...
#loving #living with
Eyes . Wide. Open.
Remember Compassion?? Even to Assholes???
I love Sean... IAMSpirituality.com
Find his videos on YouTube as well.
He simply Rocks!!!
Ok..as he says. In the video below..every a$$hole you meet needs your compassion. Why? We are ALL fighting a battle within.
Everyone ..different issues, and once they define what those are, they take the time, at different paces, different methods in which to heal them. The ways they know WORK FOR THEM.
SO BE KIND, try to hold off on knowing what the best ways are for them to heal. stick with your program and someday the need for sociological general healing that fits everyone in the box will pass, as we all "transform" down our own paths our own way, pace, and without judgements from others either.
Please watch this, and all of Sean's down to earth, scientific truthful podcasts exposing our mind/body/spirit connect.
Peace.
IAM SPIRITUALITY PODCAST 77
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=37lH-qfdQ_A&feature=youtube_gdata_player